I happened to be 16, a size 14 and it also had been — long before body positivity strike the main-stream or my Tumblr feed. Now, being a year-old girl putting on a size 20, the shagging game has changed 12 months on 12 months as my own body has gotten larger as well as the dating pool has gotten smaller. The latter is considered the most insulting. The truth is, camsloveaholics. Simply speaking: it really is a minefield.
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The Dirty Guide to Sex for Fat Girls | Lottie L'Amour
Yep, Sex. You just read that right. If you will be triggered by talk of consent or lack thereof , this post is not for you — please do not put yourself in mental danger by continuing to read this post. Perhaps check out this one about my fave Instagram babes instead? Okay, are they gone?
The Dirty Guide to Sex for Fat Girls
Fat Girl Sex is a bi-weekly sex column devoted to the celebration of the sexual empowerment of women, body, and sex-positivity featuring personal meandering about all the nasty things we do in the dark. For the majority of my chubby life, the only time I heard about fat girls having sex was as the butt of a joke or as the description of a fetish. The cultural acceptance of fatphobia dehumanizing and desexualizing our bodies, framing our desirability as laughable and our sexuality as pathetic. For many years, this perpetuated anxious thoughts within me.
Many years before I got together with my boyfriend, I had a sex thing with this guy that I thought was relationship-material. He not only had an amazing body but a great personality as well. I was honest when I met him that I was looking for something more than just sex, and he led me to believe that was what he wanted, too. Between having mind-blowing sex, we ordered in, played video games, and watched movies, couple-y type things but without the label. But when I tried to get him to go to a show or out to dinner with me, he refused.