As far as first time lesbian experiences go, experimenting with someone of the same sex is thankfully less taboo than it's ever been. More recently, in a study of college students, 12 percent of men and 25 percent of women whose last hookup partner was of the same sex as them considered themsleves straight. Exploring what it means to prioritize your pleasure is nothing to be ashamed about. We asked women of all different sexual orientations about their first time lesbian experiences and same-sex encounters. Here are their stories:. In our early 30s, my husband and I decided to open our marriage to some sexual exploration and went on a date with a couple.
Flexisexual: Girls Who Kiss Girls, But Like Boys
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These so-called flexisexuals say that although they are not gay or even bisexual, they enjoy flirting and kissing girls -- but they still enjoy having sex with men. One female senior at Hofstra University in New York said she is apt to turn to women when she's had too much to drink. The student, who declined to give her name for fear a future employer might Google her sexual escapades, is one of many young women who are more flexible in their attitudes about sex. Experts say they may be influenced by the growing visibility of same-sex couples and more open attitudes about sex in general.
20 Women Share Their First Time Lesbian Experiences
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Tell us about your experiences anonymously. For her, sex would have been something a woman endured rather than enjoyed. Coming to London in was a revelation.